Boy Meets Girl

O.K. So here's the scoop on Rylan and his older lady friend! I know you all have been waiting with baited breath....

Date: Oct. 24, 2008 Place: Fall Festival-Greenwood Family YMCA

Boy walks in with mother (UGH!-how humiliating) and little brother and a friend. Boy (AKA: Rylan) and friend (we'll call him C) are let loose to roam the festival at their own discretion. BIG MISTAKE as boy comes back with an important announcement: "I'M GOING OUT WITH THAT GIRL OVER THERE IN THE RED SHIRT." Mom's first reaction: What exactly does GOING OUT mean when you're 11 years old?! As later explained to Mom, going out means: Boy asks his friend (C) to ask little cute girl if she wants to "go out." Girl says Yes. Now keep this in mind: Boy has never met this girl before! He may have seen her in passing at school--maybe, not sure. One reason he hasn't seen much of her at school is because SHE'S IN THE 8TH (EIGTH) GRADE!!

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Anyway, the threesome pal around for about another hour and then everyone goes home. Mom has all but forgotten about R's "girlfriend" because I figure it's just a passing fancy. Well, fast forward to today: November 10. The Boy and Girl are still an item! I've stressed and fussed and steamed and stewed but to no avail: their love endures. What's a mom to do?

I've warned my child of the dangers of older women! I've told him to beware of hand holding (which he assures me is "gross"), too much talking on the phone and other such dating dangers. He very non-chalantly tells me, "I already know, Mom!" Well, excuse me! This "going out" (though they actually never go out anywhere TOGETHER) thing is very new to me! And I must say, even though she's 2 years older, she is a very sweet, respectful girl. She seems to have bolstered his self-esteem and given me another bargaining tool to use as punishment against him! ("Rylan, you can't call "M" tonight because you ran your mouth at your father....etc.") So, it may all work out well in the end. I just want him to keep his options open and play the field a LITTLE before he settles down!!!